When it’s not
just the two of us, then E and I will play together me holding the cards and
discussing tactics together before a move is made. If it’s just the two of us, then she needs to
play her own hand. Like any child, the
level of game she is able to play and make decision on has changed over the years
and we have a great wee solution that works from an early age, giving
independence in deciding what card to be played.
There are a
good selection of resources available for holding playing cards . The one we chose was
a table top design that allows the cards to be placed in a row, although 7
cards do need an overlap. I love that we
can have a proper game of cards without me ever having to see her hand.
The cards can
be placed in the holder without me looking at them, though it took a while to
get the best spacing. Then to play
cards, we use a combination of eye gaze from E and pointing from me to select
the card she wants. The cards face her
and I see only the back. She can then
narrow down which card by looking either to the right, the left or the middle. From there, I point at the cards in that vicinity
and she will say yes (verbally or physically) when I get to the one she wants
to play.
What E sees |
What I see |
The stand can
also be used for picture based card games and the method of selection can be
adapted to suit the communication methods appropriate to the child. We’ve found it to be sturdy not toppling even
on train journeys. It can hold around 10
cards with overlap.
Happy memories of Daddy and Nana enjoying playing cards at 405, but also arguing about the rules of Solo.
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